Fleshlight masturbator – What is it and how to use it?

Discover why Fleshlight is the go-to choice for male pleasure! Learn tips, tricks, and must-have accessories to elevate your experience with this legendary sex toy.

Curious why Fleshlight masturbators are so legendary? This guide not only explains why but also shows you how to get the most out of your favorite male sex toy!

If you could only buy one sex toy as a man, most people would probably recommend a Fleshlight. If you're familiar with sex shops, the brand likely isn’t new to you, as they’ve been producing the world's most popular male sex toys for decades.

Whether this is your first time hearing about it or you already own one (or more), keep reading for extra tips to enhance your Fleshlight experience!

What is a Fleshlight masturbator?

At first glance, a Fleshlight might appear entirely innocent... resembling a flashlight, to be exact. The name comes from the combination of the words "flashlight" and "flesh," perfectly describing this cleverly disguised masturbator. Instead of a bulb, the flashlight-shaped case hides lifelike openings both inside and out!

Fleshlight revolutionized the world of male masturbators by offering discreet, stylish designs that deliver a remarkably realistic experience.

What makes Fleshlight special? First, the external design of the openings closely mimics real intimate areas. Second, the soft interior is made from a patented material that mimics the natural feel of different openings. Plus, the inner surfaces vary from model to model, featuring ridges and structures for extra stimulation!

Today, Fleshlight offers not only artificial vaginas but also butt and mouth models. Thanks to the Fleshlight Girls and Fleshjack series, you can even enjoy masturbators molded after your favorite porn stars, like Stoya Destroya, Riley Reid, and Jenna Haze.

How to use a Fleshlight masturbator

Maybe you already have a Fleshlight tucked away in your bedside drawer, or you're about to order your new favorite toy. Before diving right in, read on for some helpful tips!

1. Set the mood... and your Fleshlight

Masturbation is natural, but let’s be honest—there’s nothing more awkward than getting interrupted in the middle of it. Ensure a private, relaxed environment, and preferably lock the door!

Before use, make sure your Fleshlight is clean, and have everything you need nearby, especially lube!

2. Get yourself in the mood

Just like sex, it's best to get into the mood before you start. A Fleshlight is most enjoyable when you're already aroused, so whether it's through a little fantasizing, watching porn, or manual stimulation, get yourself ready first.

3. Use plenty of lube

Obviously, a sex toy can’t lubricate itself, but lube is essential for the experience. So grab the lube you’ve prepared! Be careful with the type of lube you use—certain formulas can damage the silicone sleeve, so stick with a water-based lube for longevity.

4. Start slow and insert gently

While you might be eager to jump in, take it slow at first. Pussy masturbators accommodate different shapes and sizes, so it's worth experimenting to find what feels best for you. Once you’ve found the right angle and depth, it’s time for the fun to begin!

5. Move up and down until you reach climax

Found your sweet spot? Now it's time for the classic up-and-down motion. If you want to last longer, Fleshlights are perfect for learning self-control. And no joke—our range even includes endurance training kits!

Cleaning your fleshlight

Like all sex toys, Fleshlights require care if you want them to remain reliable and enjoyable for a long time. What should you do? Clean it thoroughly before first use and after every session. When you take it out again, check that everything is clean and ready to go!

Gently remove the soft interior from the plastic case. Be careful not to damage the sleeve material. Until you’re confident with the process, check the instructions for safe disassembly.
Clean the case! Some moisture can accumulate in the outer casing, so rinse it with warm soapy water and dry it.
Make sure to remove any fluids from the sleeve! The interior will likely have residue from both the lube and semen, which need to be thoroughly washed away. For now, just rinse it thoroughly with warm running water.
Disinfect! After cleaning, use a sex toy cleaner, or even better, go for Fleshlight's own disinfectant. If you use their disinfectant, don’t mix in other products to keep the sleeve in its original condition for longer.
Dry thoroughly! Always ensure both the outer case and the inner sleeve are completely dry before storage. Avoid using cloths that might leave lint on the soft interior. A Fleshlight drying stand can help speed up the process.
Use renewal powder! Before putting it away, use some Fleshlight renewal powder to maintain that lifelike feel.
Store safely! Always return the sleeve to its case before storing it away.